March 12, 2010

stray then dun stay.

This whole Jack and his friggin affairs thing is irritating the hell out of me.
1st the not-very-good-looking-163cm-model girlfren, then the numerous others who came to declare their association w this matter and now the dramatic press conference.
I like a little gossip, but not in this way.
It's too close to home to feel like it's anything entertaining.

My personal take on cheating partners? Dun bother.
All u need is one word, and it's not even "sorry".

For a couple, u start of as strangers, u become friends, and ur level of trust for each other builds up from there.
It may come to a pt whr u trust each other with ur lives.
And all it takes is that few minutes of folly (or in this case, an entire 2 years) and that wall of trust is torn down.
This time, u not only need to build another trust-wall, u need to clear the debris.

Many ppl say if the other party repents, give him or her another chance.
He or she will learn to cherish u more.

Why do u need to make a mistake to learn to appreciate the one u (supposedly) love?
The logic sounds warped to me.

It's easier to trust a stranger than to trust s'one who has hurt u b4.
Forgive and forget.
The former is easy, the latter is tough.

It's gng to be a crazy long and tedious journey trying to make a broken r/ship work again.
It's like chasing a lost cause.
It's like running, working, fighting just to get back to the starting point.
Not worth it if u ask me.

I would give my blessings and say BYE.

And so I salute his wife.
Maybe it's responsibility, maybe it's for the children, maybe it's for some greater reason that I do not fathom. Yet.

They say all men will stray.
I hope it's just a pessimistic myth, not a hopeless truth.

God made One woman for that One man.
That was THE plan.
Let's not be greedy here boys.

**Disclaimer: All these are just my personal thots.

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